Conversations at the time of dying can be some of the most tender, vulnerable moments we encounter. We all too often feel tongue tied and uncomfortable in wanting to say the right thing. And we often say things out of habit, or from views we have inherited from others.
For example, “I don’t want to be a burden on my family” is a phrase we often hear people say when they are dying.
Although, this is a commonly accepted phrase, it can be deeply transformative to explore what we mean by the word “burden” and what we may be really asking for as a consequence.
Through contemplative conversation, Lori and Rhonda love to explore the ways in which avoiding being a burden can be an act of selflessness and self-sufficiency, but could also contribute to limiting our relationships, not trusting the support of family and being overly independent. By talking about this common phrase we hope to expand our understanding and help each other find our own clarity and values in what we express.
Join Lori Krause and Rhonda LoPresti in Thoughtful Talk on exploring what we say in tender times, what we really mean and what we truly want to say.
Saturday, June 15th, 9a-12:30p PDT. Recording available with registration.
To register, go to: https://peacefully-prepared.teachable.com/p/thoughtful-talk
